A writer's Heart

Romance! An interesting topic indeed, you can see it everywhere, and many versions of it. It's quite an intriguing topic to mention. What is romance? "a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love" I really wonder where the additions society added came from, romance is associated with flowers, wine and elegant meals, song dedications, expensive or non expensive gifts and many other things. Society molds everything as time elapses and it is really amazing if you analyze to what extent romance has been taken too. Honestly I don't quite get the meaning itself, since it can be interpreted in a variety of ways. "A feeling of excitement" these words have so many ways of being understood, and it all depends on each individual. As a matter of fact if a survey is made you could actually be amazed to the results. Personally I believe that the word 'romance' is expressed inadequately many times but that is left to be determined by society. So...

~They didn't realize she was changing until she had taken them out of her life. She became colder according to them, what they didn't realize was she had limits as well. -a writer's heart~

There was so much more in her smile, that innocence that made you fall in love involuntarily. She wasn't the smartest, she even considered herself stupid, but her kindness and empathy were all.

As a human being you can give a lot, give it wholeheartedly to those you feel deserve it. Most of the times we are completely mistaken, leading to sorrow. Each time you make this error you can either become a little colder or just continue trying to see the good in people and make the same error all over again. Sometimes you can believe you have found the right friend, that person you have always hoped for, that one person you can share anything with. Suddenly, distance comes, you realize how easily they forget you, that you weren't important in their life as you thought. The minute you really needed them, they weren't there even when you sent them a thousand clues. All you needed was an "Are you okay?" yet you were so wrong and nothing ever reached. You start to realize you were there every moment they needed you, but now you have been replaced by those who give them better memories. You accept it, move on, and put them on the list everyone is in. Another acquainta...

Could love exist between a dragon and a tiger? They saw all there similarities excluding all the things that people saw as wrong. There love would be a success, because they would go side by side through the bumpy path ahead. #lesson Societies point of view is the destruction of great love stories, follow your heart and ignore the rumble.

As people stopped pretending to have a friendship with her, better the sensation of loneliness became, except on those undesirable days!

As time passed, she finally realized she was the one going the extra mile. No messages were ever received, no calls, no further communication, she finally took the courage to give up. Some friendships should end or at least left to be, the more time passes thinner the bond. The decision was made, she no longer waited or even hoped for it, for her everything was over. She finally saw, they had always been strangers pretending to be friends.

Giving up can also be a right choice in certain situations!

Sometimes it is for the best to gain distance just before it is too late. At the point before your heart takes the wrong path, because your emotions are speaking louder than your thoughts. You might really wonder what to do at this point. My answer would be, if you go through that path even if you gain some beautiful memories, there will be pain for all that illusion you are going to create. The next path might sound harsh, gain distance, maybe even cut off the friendship to a thinner line, these will make you grow and the suffering is less. At this point you haven't fallen in love with a person who only loves you as a simple friend. Not all attention means there is a love bond being created, sometimes it is just a persons way of being friendly. Don't mistake their kindness for interest and attraction to you. Be sure to understand that not because you like somebody, they have to view you in the same way.

Cultures are important, as I sat there on the bus home, I had the pleasure of viewing two complete different ethnic groups. You would consider Mestizos and Mennonites are really different, I agree they differentiate in many ways but are similar in some quite interesting ways as well. They do dress completely different, the ladies are more conservative than a common mestizo who adapt to any fashion in the market. I won't get into the beliefs, but more on their human interaction between one another. The Mestizos don't interact at all with the Mennonite ladies, it is as if they both were aliens to one another. I agree the language is an issue that cuts communication, but further than that many Mennonites speak English and Mestizos too. Yet they don't even try an interaction, not something simple as a smile or the common manners of good morning. Mestizo ladies feel confident to speak a conversation within them, they talk about life, how they spent the morning shopping and many ...

Lately I have seen death so frequently, seen pain and sorrow. I can't say I feel the pain the families are feeling, but I can feel there sorrow, desperation and frustration. I hear the frequent comforting verses people say, like "He is in a better place" or " He won't suffer anymore."  I feel that hearing it makes your conscience feel better, but the pain in your heart is still unbearable. I consider that God comforts the heart, the deepest sentiments and emotions. As humans the despair is deep, the tightness inside; the memories, all as flashbacks one after the other. All the thoughts telling you that they are gone forever. The unbearable feeling that you are going to explode, and all the tears that come without you even realizing it. Even when you try to be strong and honor your loved ones life, the tears are all inevitable. I believe that if you need to scream, do so, cry everything out. If you want to lock yourself for a while, do so, tell God to give ...